老妈的生日她自己也不知道是哪一天的，我爸甚至怀疑连年头都不对。不过我大姨应该知道我妈小她两岁，年头不应该有误。可以肯定的是老妈生日是假的。
因为我父母的生日都没准数，父母也不记得我们的生日，在家里我和弟弟们从来不过生日。我过生日是从上大学开始的！
我给老妈过生日是从2001年开始的。那时她在美国，看她护照我才知道她的生日，那年她60岁！
我和妈妈生活在一起的日子加起来应该超不过十年。最长的一段时间应该是2000年11月到2004年的7月。在加拿大住了3个月，在美国住了3年半。
我妈2004年回国以后，竟然在家门口的超市逛丢了，而且还打了出租车回家，好长一段时间大家都开她的玩笑。
我妈是文盲，没有任何业余爱好，唯一喜欢的事情是赚钱。但是她有钱不花在自己身上，逢年过节给她姐姐寄钱，坚持至少有30年。我知道她不喜欢花钱，有段时间就给她网购买东西，发现她尽管很开心但还是不喜欢东西。后来给她打了现金，她高兴的拿着一沓钱在屏幕上冲我笑，说着给这个人给那个人的数字，像个富婆。
我和老妈越来越像，不仅长相更接近了，脾气秉性也很像。不喜欢闲着，爱劳作赚钱。我妈在她住的小区里应该是条件不错的。尽管我爸不在了，但是她和我大弟弟一家住着，小弟也在附近，加上几乎每天和我视频，应该是有一个不错的晚年。
年轻的时候，她干了16年的售货员，应该是爱好成了工作，很开心的。退休以后她一直都骑三轮卖货的。只是疫情发生不能干了，她和我说，她现在彻底失业了！
我妈性格很好，不笑不开口。我爸一直说她心宽体胖没心没肺。这一点我随她，我很感恩！
本来我应该回国为她过80大寿而且还可以过春节。前些年来我一直在秋天带她出去旅游，计划好的从今年开始可以一年回国两次，可是疫情肆虐，前些天石家庄还成了重灾区。好在前天解禁，我让她去超市买买买，给自己过一个生日！
今天还是立春，我们这边大雪封门。瑞雪兆丰年，祝老妈身体健健康康
My mother doesn’t even know which day is her birthday, and my father even suspected that the year is incorrect. However, my aunt should know that my mother is two years younger than her, so the year should not be wrong. It can be confirmed that my mother’s birthday is fake.
Because my parents’ birthdays are not accurate, and they don’t remember our birthdays either, my siblings and I never celebrate our birthdays at home. I started celebrating my birthday when I went to college!
I started celebrating my mother’s birthday in 2001. At that time, she was in the United States, and I only knew her birthday by looking at her passport. She was 60 years old that year!
The time I spent living with my mother should not exceed ten years in total. The longest period of time should be from November 2000 to July 2004. We lived in Montreal Canada for three months and in the United States for three and a half years.
After my mother returned to China in 2004, she actually got lost in the supermarket near our apartment and took a taxi back home. For a long time, everyone made fun of her.
My mother is illiterate and has no hobbies except making money. But she doesn’t spend money on herself. She sends money to her sister every holiday for at least 30 years. I knew she didn’t like to spend money, so I bought things for her online for a while. I found that she was happy but still didn’t like the things. Later, I gave her cash, and she happily held a stack of money in front of the screen and laughed, saying the numbers she gave to this person and that person, like a wealthy woman.
My mother and I are becoming more and more alike, not only in appearance but also in temperament. We don’t like to be idle and love to work and make money. My mother should have a good living environment in the community where she lives. Although my father is gone, she lives with my younger brother’s family, and my another younger brother is also nearby. Plus, we video chat almost every day, so she should have a good life.
When she was young, she worked as a salesperson for 16 years, and her hobby became her job, which made her very happy. After retiring, she has been selling goods on a tricycle. She can’t do it now because of the pandemic. She told me that she is completely jobless now!
My mother has a very good personality and always laughs. My father always said she was generous and carefree. I am grateful for this trait, and I am alike her.
Originally, I was supposed to go back to China to celebrate her 80th birthday and also celebrate the Chinese New Year. In recent years, I have been taking her on trips in the fall, and I had planned to go back to China twice a year starting from this year. However, the pandemic is raging, and Shijiazhuang became a heavily affected area a few days ago. Fortunately, the ban was lifted the day before yesterday, so I let her go shopping at the supermarket and celebrate her birthday!
Today (2/3) is still the beginning of spring, and heavy snow is blocking our doors. The auspicious snow foretells a bountiful year, and I wish my mother good health!
三涵妈妈 
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